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karena
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Posted: 10/2/2003 9:44:00 PM

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"I feel for this woman and all she's going through... because all she's getting from this marriage is nothing but money and material possessions"

"She's sitting in Nigeria taking care of the guys mother and everyone else while I'm down here with her husband living in a big Loft in an up market suburb that he bought for me, driving the latest car in town that he bought for me, only wear designer dresses that some people only dream about, as a professional my self I don't even use my money"

What a contradiction. First, she says that the wife is only getting the material benefits of the marriage. Then, she lists all the material things that she herself is getting from her boyfriend. Who's the fool here? Definitely both of them.

manti
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Posted: 10/2/2003 10:51:00 PM

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lol @ karena. Me i think the lady who wrote this article, is the fool. Who said the wife in 9ja does not have a sugar daddy or playboy?
"I don't even dream of marrying my boyfriend because I'm scared of being subjected to the same treatment these poor women are subjected to not even knowing" The guy must be living a dream, no marriage whaala

sallee
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Posted: 10/2/2003 11:58:00 PM

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@Manti...So were u considering marrying ur Boyfriend? hmn that makes me wanna suggest u r...hmn Wink

okerotimi
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Posted: 10/3/2003 4:27:00 AM

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@ Karena ,All the parties involved are fools... Sad shikena!



_________Rotimi omo iya shadeAngel

obi
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Posted: 10/3/2003 12:10:00 PM

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we look alike but we r diff.individually,most niger'n men go home 2 marry cos they think they have d best way back home besides afro marriage is not about d 2 pple involved .its a whole lot of families united together.ua family at home frown at u if u marry international..but its changing though...like me i really love zimbabwean girls....i'm still searching 4 one of them...

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Posted: 10/3/2003 12:35:00 PM

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I believe i had replied to this article on a different forum but here's my opinion. It still baffles me why Nigerian men travel all the way to naija to find their dream wives, but on the other hand it looks to me like this guy in question loves being a charity worker. Him supporting his wife back home and you in SA, and girl, believe me, if i were you, i would not have any intentions of marrying him either cos thesame might happen to you. I do not blame you at all for your situation because he decided to put himself in that mess. The only thing i worry about is, don't you think it's morally and ethically wrong to be messing with a married man? I mean, i have no conscience when it comes to certain issues, but when it comes to Marriage and it's sanctuaries, you really don't want to come in between that. You know what they say, what goes around comes around.
As for the woman back home playing the role of a wife, why are you feeling pity for her? Do you think she's back there with her

obi
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Posted: 10/3/2003 12:36:00 PM

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she should pray..i got 2 folks here in same condition...organ donors r increasing by d day so she can always find a match if shees too keen about living.God is our provider.

afen
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Posted: 10/3/2003 2:42:00 PM

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Eyah sorry oooooooooooooo
Na only 2 i get i for give one away if to say e complete 3.

afolabi_sam
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Posted: 10/3/2003 3:42:00 PM

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i for say make she donate for her sis wey still get years ahead :rather than the old mama wey don they naturally leave the stage of life even without any terminal sickness !

pipiro
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Posted: 10/3/2003 4:44:00 PM

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Gurl allow me to advise u clean and clear,first and foremost it is good that u don't intend to marry these ur so called bf,bcos take it or leave it 90% of naija men abroad will go back home and marry bcos these men back there no one thing for sure that when they are through with "us" they have those at home ready at their beck and call,infact i am advising naija babes abroad to start going home too to marry,that will save the situation back in egypt where i am and when i was in yankee,holland the story is same among naija men,so these bobo will go back home to that woman he is pretending to avoid,of recent me i went home to hoook a guy ooo,though a female like me who is on site and in canada is already hooked to him but alas she knows what she wants and she went for it and believe me,she hooked the right fish and one of the best naija guy i have ever come across both home and abroad,so watch ur back gurl and read the handwritting on the wall.
a word is enough for the wise.

jolaleye
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Posted: 10/3/2003 5:35:00 PM

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na jeje I wan reply this o.. na so i see say katakata don bust. Na in my mouth do zip. Na so so i dey try open am. I no sabi where to start. I'll come back after a few hours and see if I can regain my voice.

jolaleye
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Posted: 10/3/2003 5:42:00 PM

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lol @ obi...I still think Ethiopian babes are the hottest... I'ma get me one of dem...
It seems we have a disoriented family here. If I still cant do maths or english very well, please feel free to question my comprehension and sums. He goes out with a babe.. 2 yrs into a relationship goes home and gets married... comes back right? Abeg help me calculate all dem 2 and 4 years wey dem dey talk.

pipiro
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Posted: 10/4/2003 3:57:00 AM

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Is stiil maintain that the gurl here knows definately she is loosing out,she has confimred that she can't marry these guy,so my advise again for u gurl is also for u to go back home and search for a nice bobo,bcos all dis naija guys abroad are not it,believe me.

afolabialbert
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Posted: 10/4/2003 4:47:00 AM

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U wonder why the men abroad come back home and choose a woman?well i felt an average naija guy abroad have these impression that most ladies abroad are kind of bad or maybe they have reasons which i might not know but one thing am sure of is that both parties abroad complain of each other not been sincerity or infidelity on the part of one person,though i have few friends abroad but in recent times they are back home scouting for a bride,i don't have anything the ladies abroad but i felt that ppl should change their attitudes toward others ,there was time here on asorock when a similar topic was sent in for ppl to contribute the views,we heard what most of the guys abroad said,atleast 90% of them wants to come back home,even if not naija atleast an african origin,so let us see one another as equal and let us show some love.
But for the lady in question i felt she should handsoff bcos definately some day this guy will come back to naija for this woman if he will not,the baby boy the woman is carrying will some grow up and ask for his father infact demand to see his father in flesh and blood,so oh girl no wait for dat time wen di boy go break ur head ooo.

orjisteve
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Posted: 10/4/2003 10:42:00 AM

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It is really a shameful thing that some of our young men (Nigerian) are enticed to live with harlots in diguise as girlfriends far away their fatherland and abandon their legitimate wives. The man in question lacked moral reasoning and his not manly enough to choose what he wants and on the second issue some of our girls are too materistic that they are blinded to see the hand writng on the wall, I want to disbeleive that such girl is educated in this mordern day Nigeria Girl.

She Must be a poor girl from a poor family decieved.

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